There are lists of things you aren't supposed to do; things that aren't beneficial, that aren't good. Many of these things you have the right and freedom to do but they don't bring about the life God desires for you or me. And there are plenty of good things, celebrated and blessed things you do. But, whether you don't do somethings and do other things - your sense of being good, better or best on the schedule of comparison isn't enough. That isn't what brings God to you, what brings his love. No, he desires you in his family, he wants the best for you. Your performance doesn't get his attention, you aren't that perfect. His grace is what saves, his action that makes available his presence, his purpose and his power. Say yes to Jesus and receive his Grace.