Everyday, every step along your life’s journey, you have had individuals who have wanted to sway your allegiance, be in your circle or have you as an asset in their world. This sounds rather cold and calculating but these elements are in some way a part of the makeup of friendship. In a healthy relationship there is a give and take, there is service, surrender and blessing. In unhealthy relationships you can become a pawn to a player, are often encouraged to follow without reason or evidence to trust them. Many times, there are warning signs, internal promptings that you have that can be overridden but are there to provide reasons to ask different questions, better questions. Asking yourself, if you should allow that person access to your life.