It doesn’t take long for you and me to experience hurt and frustration, this world has a natural bent toward destruction. And when people are deeply wounded, we look for a cause, understanding and comfort. There also is a natural tendency to seek someone to be at fault, to blame, to be held accountable for the hard or tragic situation. Thus, the necessity for a system that attempts to determine facts and present justice. There are times that the depth of sorrow and intensity of pain care little of facts nor of justice but seek the delusional thought that revenge will in some way alleviate pain or make someone feel what you feel. This step leads in a dark direction, but what can you do?